A digital journal to aid in healing and recovery from a relationship with an emotionally unavailable partner.
One of the things I stress to my students is that "charm" is a verb not an adjective. Sociopaths are almost always charming and charismatic. They have to be, it's how they lure you in. There's nothing wrong with looking for our own Prince, but it makes sense to learn, not only what to look for, but what to WATCH OUT FOR.
sent me a link to a great article from O webzine...Prince Harming looks exactly like Prince Charming on the surface. Lesson learned here....look deeper, MUCH deeper.
In response to message posted by Hermes:
My heart goes out to you in your recovery. Grieving the loss of a relationship with a N has many layers. They are not the usual layers of grieving a healthy person. The problem is that some of the layers ARE the same as grieving a healthy person but then there are layers reserved only for the loss of a N relationship, which are not understood by the 'civilian' population and can ONLY be understood by those who have survived a significant relationship with a N.
In a healthy relationship break-up one grieves:
Those are typical feelings that can come up after a break-up of a healthy relationship.
But grieving a N there are other ingredients, not available to the public understanding, such as:
Grieving a N is a burden, it's a hole in one's life.
Love, Nicky
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